Hello my lovely readers. Today I want to introduce you to Bestselling author Carolyn Ridder Aspenson, represented and published by Booktrope Publishing. Her newest novel, Unfinished Business, releases this month (May 2014) in the paranormal chick lit genre. Today I have Carolyn here at YA Story Teller, answering the questions of a curious blogger.
Me: Hello Carolyn. I'm so glad to have you here today. It's an honor.
Carolyn: Oh, thank you for having me.
Me: I'm curious. How long have you been
writing?
Carolyn: I've
always been writing. I have poems and stories from when I was a kid boxed up in
my closet. I just never thought I'd do anything with my writing. About 14 years
ago I happened upon a website about the ABC soap operas here in the states and
I was given an opportunity to write for that site. That writing led to other
website writing and eventually I started doing freelance work for local
magazines and newspapers and then I wrote my first book. Well, my fourth book,
but the first one I actually finished.
Me: Were you inspired by a real
life story?
Carolyn: Absolutely!
I wrote Unfinished Business, my first book in the Angela Panther series, as a
way to honor my mother, who passed from lung cancer in 2009. I wanted to do
something to honor her memory and I wanted people to know the woman I loved.
She was so funny...so amazing and so frustrating at times, too and I wanted to
share all of that wonderful and frustrating stuff that made her the woman she
was. So, I wrote the first book. There are many elements of Unfinished Business
that are true...how we buried my mother, the scenes with Angela's father and
stepmother...the characters. It has a very real element of life to it but
unfortunately, I don't see my mother's ghost, like Angela does. Though
honestly, I wouldn't complain if I did! Actually, I'd be the luckiest woman
alive if I could!
Me: Oh wow! I'm so sorry for your loss. It's tough to lose a parent, especially a mother. What do you think is the most
important thing in a mother-daughter relationship?
Carolyn: Oh boy.
Do I have to pick just one? There are so many elements that are
important...honesty, support, appreciation, respect...actually, I'm going to go
with forgiveness. No one is perfect. Even our mothers have imperfections.
They're only human, just like us and just like our daugthers. I know I've made
a billion mistakes and my mother always...always forgiven me when I did
something that hurt her. No one can ever love you like your mother and it's so
important to remember that and understand what that truly means. I hope one day
my girls can realize that about me, too.
Me: What does your own mother
think about your book?
Carolyn: Sadly,
I don't know for sure but I suspect she's up in Heaven bragging and telling
everyone about the books. While writing the first one it became tough on me and
I stopped for about six months. I honestly didn't expect to finish it. One
night I had a dream where my mom was standing behind me. She leaned onto my
shoulder and said, "Carolyn, you need to finish the book." That next
day I got up and did just that. I think it was a sign. I think she knows.
Me: How do you feel about
mother-daughter book clubs?
Carolyn: If I
were to join one with my mom when she was alive, I'd have to have joined a
historical romance one and read the likes of Barbra Cartland, because she was
my mom's favorite author. She also read the Harlequin romances of the 70's and
80's. We used to grab them off of the bookshelf and start reading them and I'd
be horrified! They were almost porn to me! Now I'd be thrilled to read with
her—whatever she wanted. If your mom is still alive, be grateful, be thankful
and do all you can to be with her because that moment she's gone, your whole
world changes and nothing you do will ever be as it was. Cherish that time. I'm
all for the book club, going to Walmart, sitting on the couch and talking...all
of it. Do it. You won't regret it!
Me: What's the one thing your
mother taught you that you will never forget?
Carolyn: Gosh,
one thing? That's a tough one. I realized after she died that most of what she
taught me wasn't stuff like, how to set a table, or how to eat in public. She
taught me things that became a part of me. Things that made me the person I am
today. How to stand up for myself. How to follow my gut. How to forgive, but
not always forget. How to deal with the ridiculous crap that hits us throughout
our life and walk away better, smarter, and happy. How to handle the tough
stuff. She was incredible at that.
Me: What's the best Mother's Day
gift you've ever presented to your mom?
Carolyn:I don't
know. There were 42 years of Mother's Days! After she died and I went through
her stuff I found some things I'd made as a kid and cards I'd given her
throughout the years. She kept things I hadn't thought of for years. In one of
the cards I wrote, "Thank you for loving me unconditionally" and I
think that's the gift we gave each other, unconditional love. She was my best
friend for many, many years...after I stopped hating her when I was a teenager,
at least. I loved her then but I didn't like her, though I really can't tell
you why and I bet she liked me even less!
Me: What's the most fun thing
about writing?
Carolyn: Dialog!
I LOVE dialog! I can say things I'd WANT to say to someone but can't for
various reasons. I can think about what should be said...kind of like when
someone says something to you and you say something back and later think,
"Man, I wish I would have said ---- instead!" I can go back and say
the ----- instead and I LOVE that!
Me: You were amazing, Carolyn! I hope to have you here again soon!
BOOK DETAILS:
Title: Unbreakable Bonds
Summary:
A
Mother's Work is Never Done...
Carolyn
Aspenson's (Unfinished
Business)
latest picks up the story of Angela Panther's dealings with her dead
mom, Fran and the duo's dynamic is as delightful as ever!
Angela
had her psychic gift under control until a traumatic loss shut it
down. And now that Angela's daughter is in too deep with a boy and
her best friend Mel's husband is cheating, she needs her mom more
than ever.
Fran
knows that when you're a mom, there's no such thing as till
death do us part
and she won't rest
in peace
while there's strife in her daughter's life. Using
her nifty celestial superpowers, she's soon back in the game and
helping out, regardless of her daughter's defunct gift.
Title: Unfinished Business
Summary:
Stay
at home mom Angela Panther is living the good life. Happily married
with two kids, a house in the suburbs and, a fantabulous best friend,
she's got it all. But
hours after Angela's mother dies, her ghost pops in for a visit,
leaving the door to the other side wide open. Suddenly Angela's
life is jam-packed with ghosts - ghosts that need her help. Now
Angela must find a way to balance the needs of the living along with
the unfinished business of the dead, all while keeping her mother's
ghost in line. Hilarious and
bittersweet, Unfinished
Business
tackles the emotional ups and downs of the relationships between
mothers and daughters and the desperate desire for that one last
chance to tell someone we've lost how we feel.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Carolyn
Ridder Aspenson is
the Amazon and Barnes & Noble best selling author of Unfinished
Business; An Angela Panther Novel,
Unbreakable Bonds; An
Angela Panther Novel,
the novella Santa's
Gift, a Cumming Christmas Novella
and The Quick Start
Weight Loss Program.
An
avid fitness buff, Carolyn writes a monthly health and fitness column
for Northside Woman
Magazine as well as
regular weekly news articles for various Atlanta area media outlets
including the Forsyth
Herald, the Milton
Herald, the Revue
and News, and the
Johns Creek Herald.
Her works have also been published in Countyline
Magazine and various
Internet publications.
A
native of Indiana, for over eighteen years Carolyn called the
northwest Chicago suburbs home. She now resides in the Atlanta area
with her husband, three kids, two dogs and cat.
Author links:
Google+ Carolyn Ridder Aspenson
Twitter: awritingwoman
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When Angela Panther's mother Fran Richter wakes her
up in the middle of the night ranting about stolen Hershey Bars, Angela thinks her
mother's got a screw loose. And then it hits her. Her mother is dead. Just a
few hours before, Angela watched as the funeral home staff nearly dropped her
mother's body off the gurney while sliding her into the hearse. So maybe she's
the one that's nuttier than a fruitcake?
Carolyn Ridder Aspenson is the author of Unfinished Business An Angela Panther Novel and Unbreakable Bonds An Angela Panther Novel,
both of the chick-lit and paranormal genres, the romantic novella,
Santa’s Gift and a health and wellness program, The Quick Start Weight
Loss Program.
